But He Takes Care Of Me
Ah, the high price we pay for someone to take care of us. Because we think we need someone to take care of us. But the truth is, we don’t. The crazy thing is that we've been taking care of everyone...
View ArticleThe One Little Thing That's Keeping You Stuck
We all have one. And we’ll do anything to defend it, to keep it going. It keeps us doing the same things over and over again whether it’s working for us or not. It isn't, but that’s not the point...
View ArticleGetting Past Emotionally Unavailable Men
One of our gorgeous readers, Maria, shares her story about finally getting past the emotionally unavailable men she was typically attracted to that would always suddenly disappear on her. She's now...
View ArticleSettling - What It Is and Isn't
Settling. It's such a small little word, but it speaks volumes. It carries such a huge weight of thoughts and ideas, of repercussions and fears. And yet, do we really know what it means? We don't want...
View ArticleHow We Heal
In our culture, there's a predominant belief that in order to help people we need to be direct, to the point, and take off the kid gloves. This method is often portrayed as a loving approach by using...
View ArticleHow Do I Say No When I Can't Stop Thinking About Him?
How do I say no to him? Our gorgeous friend, who has called herself "Mayan Goddess", is wondering how to break free of a guy that she can never seem to say no to. Here's her story: He says it's...
View ArticleWhy He Keeps You Hanging On
Why won't he just make a commitment? You’re perplexed. Puzzled. Utterly Confused. On the one hand, he says he’s not ready for a commitment. He says he can’t give you what you’re looking for. But then...
View ArticleIt's Your Choice
Never, ever, forget this part. You look back. You look back at what was, not what is. You retell the story of how it should have been with your memory of what you did wrong. It’s not too late! Throw...
View ArticleBreaking the Cycle
It's time to change our subconscious programming. There's a girl down the street who reminds me of someone I used to know. She’s barely a teenager and she’s already got the look. The one that says...
View ArticleWhy he says "It’s going good just the way it is, let’s not mess with it."
Hint: It's not because of you! It feels so personal, doesn't it? When he says "It’s going good just the way it is, let’s not mess with it", you just can't help it. You think it's because of you. "I...
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